Daily Diaries - Quarter-Life Crisis or Just Getting Started?
March 8th
Quarter-Life Crisis or Just Getting Started? Turning 25 & Reflecting on the Journey So Far
Tomorrow, I turn 25. A whole quarter of a century. And honestly? I’m feeling all the emotions—excitement, nostalgia, anxiety, and a solid dose of what the hell am I even doing? It’s one of those ages that feels like it should mean something, like I should have my life sorted out by now. Spoiler alert: I don’t. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that no one really does—some people are just better at faking it.
From Packing Up at 22 to Running the Show
Three years ago, I packed up my life, moved overseas, and threw myself into starting a business in an industry I knew almost nothing about. Would I recommend it? No. Has it been better than studying something I couldn’t care less about in uni? Absolutely. There have been times when I’ve felt like I was in way over my head, but looking back, I wouldn’t change a thing. The lessons, the experiences, and the absolute chaos of it all have shaped me in ways I never expected.
From Wannabe Horse to Business Owner
When I was a kid, my imagination had no limits. I fully believed I could be a horse (yes, actually). Then, I was convinced I’d go pro in basketball. Now? I think surfing will be my life forever (but let’s be real, that’ll probably change too). The common thread? I’ve always thrown myself fully into whatever excites me, and that passion is what’s kept my life wild, unpredictable, and ultimately rewarding.
The Pressure of Being ‘Mature’
For as long as I can remember, people have guessed my age wrong—usually by adding three to six years. Maybe it’s the sun damage, maybe it’s the way I carry myself, or maybe it’s the fact that I’ve been called mature for my age since I was a kid. While I appreciate it, I’ve also realised that constantly hearing it created a silent pressure. I felt like I always had to act like I had my life together—even when I was just as lost as everyone else.
What I’ve Learned in 25 Years
If I could go back and give my younger self some advice, here’s what I’d say:
You don’t have to follow the ‘normal’ path. Moving overseas and starting a business was terrifying, but so is staying stuck in something that doesn’t excite you. Take the risks.
Passion will take you further than a perfect plan. I had no clue what I was doing when I started, but my drive to learn and grow made all the difference.
No one actually has it figured out. The people who seem like they do? They’re just good at pretending. Life is messy, and that’s okay.
Being ‘mature’ doesn’t mean having all the answers. It’s okay to make mistakes, to not know what’s next, and to still feel like a kid sometimes.
So, What Now?
Who knows? I’m still figuring it out, just like everyone else. But if my first 25 years have taught me anything, it’s that life isn’t about having it all together—it’s about chasing the things that set your soul on fire and enjoying the ride, even when it’s unpredictable.
So, here’s to 25. To the chaos, the uncertainty, the adventure, and whatever comes next. And if you’re also feeling the weight of your quarter-life crisis—you’re not alone. Let’s embrace the madness and make it something incredible.