March 24th

The Hard Truth About Building a Business

Starting a business is one of the most rewarding things you can do, but it comes with a reality that not many talk about. You cannot rely on friends and family to support you. Not because they do not care, but because they will not always get it. Some will doubt you, some will drift away, and others just will not show up when you need them.

It is frustrating at first. You expect the people closest to you to be your biggest supporters, but often, that is not the case. Some will not understand why you are taking the risk, and others will assume you will fail before you even begin. It is tough, but it is part of the process. The more you grow, the more you realise that not everyone is meant to come with you.

But here is the upside. While some people fade out, others step up in ways you never expected. The ones who truly believe in you will show up, and they will become more than just supporters. Many of the people who have backed me in the strongest ways have gone on to become friends, mentors, and a huge part of my life beyond business. Community is everything, and finding the right people to have in your corner makes all the difference.

At the end of the day, building something from the ground up is a lonely process. But that does not mean it is not worth it. You learn to back yourself, trust your vision, and keep going even when no one else sees it yet. The right people will stick around, and the rest will fade away. The journey is not always easy, but the independence, growth, and connections you gain make it all worth it.

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